All of my life, the women around me have knitted. My grandmother did, my aunt did, my aunt still does, and so does Mom. As a child, I associated knitting with the love of the beloved women around me. This might be why I feel a connection to Madame Defarge from Charles Dickens' A Tale of Two Cities.
Madame Defarge is the vindictive woman who, together with her husband, runs a wine shop in Paris during the French Revolution and encodes into her knitting those names doomed for the guillotine. In this way, her knitting symbolizes thorough planning and fate. I really detest Madame Defarge, full of hate and vengeance, but her knitting attracts me to her. I have a love-hate relationship with this character. Her actions revolt me, and yet I am in sympathy with her, for her destiny seems in some weird way to have become tangled up with her knitting.
In Germanic and Norse mythology, there were three strong women known as the Norns who woven destiny into the roots of Yggdrasil, the world tree. They have therefore been dubbed Urd, Verdandi, and Skuld, the Past, Present, and Future, who arbitrarily controlled the destiny of both gods and humans. This weaving represents linked and predestined destinies.